Help Me Find Happiness: What About Dating A Younger Man?
You want to help me find happiness, so you are asking me, “What about dating a younger man?”. My reply would be, “How much younger?” Because if he’s still in the cradle, or just learning how to walk or even attending high school, that’s much too much younger for me! Of course, many celebrities have dated, and then married, younger men. Mariah Carey dated Nick Cannon for about two days and three minutes, then they got married. Two years later, they had twins. Who knows what will happen when the twins are two? At least their daughter has a great example if she ever falls for a younger man.
When someone puts out the cry, “Help me find happiness!” does that always mean dating a younger man? Not always, but pretty close. Apparently you’ve dated men who are your age, and older men. They are just too – mature. Boring, in other words. Younger men have that sexy vitality about them. You could always try an online dating site that matches older women with younger men. There are lots of young men who prefer dating older women. Especially women with jobs, who can pay for the dates.
Oh yes, that’s another thing. When you are dating a much younger man, don’t you worry about becoming a mother figure to him? And what happens when you meet his mother and find out she’s in the same yoga class for women your age? Or is younger than you? And when she brings up the inevitable, “You know, dear, my son promised me grandchildren”, what do you do then? You tell her lots of women are having babies in their forties and even early fifties, with a little fertility help, of course. And if junior promised mom a grandchild, you’ll be happy to oblige. His mother should be thankful. At least her son is involved with a woman who isn’t a young girly girl. Perhaps his mother might even find herself a younger man. You just never know where this could lead to!